Bridging Gaps and Building Futures

For Christian Gray ’17, choosing to pursue a graduate degree at NC State was more than an academic decision; it was a calling. “When searching for graduate schools, I wanted to study something I was truly passionate about,” Gray says. The Youth, Family, and Community Sciences (now known as Agricultural Education and Human Sciences)  program, which focuses on understanding and addressing the needs of youth, families, and communities, aligned perfectly with his personal experiences and aspirations.

As a first-generation college student raised by a teenage mother, Gray faced many challenges, including frequent moves and the uncertainties that came with them. Despite these difficulties, he received strong support from mentors, coaches, and teachers who invested time and energy into him. “I wanted to pay that forward,” Christian says. This desire to give back drove him to create DIVERSE (Dedicated Individuals who Value Education, Relationships, Success, and Effort) in 2014. Through this organization, he bridges gaps and creates opportunities for underrepresented youth and families, matching his education with his personal mission.

As the founder of DIVERSE, Christian has committed his life to supporting youth and families, especially those from underrepresented backgrounds. Whether through athletic development, community engagement, or leadership programs, DIVERSE aims to provide young people with the tools and resources they need to succeed. “All work that aims to positively serve others is important,” Gray says. “Youth everywhere are struggling more than ever, especially those from underprivileged backgrounds.” In reflecting on his journey, Gray shares a simple yet profound belief, “A life without helping is a life without living.” For him, every day is an opportunity to live out this truth, serving others and making a difference in the lives of those who need it most.

Several NC State faculty and staff members played a significant role in Gray’s journey. Kimberly Allen‘s ability to lead with love and passion was life-changing, while Geri Bushel provided a “family” connection that made Gray feel supported and cared for. Andrew Behnke, his academic advisor at the time, went above and beyond his role, becoming a mentor and a source of guidance. 

For Gray, inspiration comes from many sources, but above all, it is rooted in faith and the resilience of the youth and families he serves. “The cards are mostly stacked against them, but they continue to be brave, fearless, and adaptable,” he says. “When you’re overexposed to such strong people, you have no choice but to be brave with them.” His experiences working with communities facing poverty, food scarcity, homelessness, and other challenges have only deepened his commitment to his work. “I am inspired by the youth, by the families, and most importantly, by the communities who show resilience despite it all.”

As for the future, Gray is guided by a sense of purpose and faith. “A few years ago, I would have told you that I wanted the biggest community center from here to California,” he muses. “But now, I understand more than ever that my plans are God’s plans.” While there are tangible goals on the horizon, he is currently focused on continuing to bridge gaps and be a voice for those who feel silenced.